forbiddenluvers ([info]forbiddenluvers) wrote,
2005-11-20 20:44:00
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October 4th

October 4

IG
I liked that picture, you looked so in control and most importantly relaxed. I loved the poem it was really touching. I guess I'll always read it and think of our marathon date :-)

So (the roomie) has this theory just read and don't over-react
please, you may have to meet him one day. Anyways he thinks that I tend to talk to ugly guys because I want security and that I love control. Do I seem controlling to you?

SB
Ok, first...my response.....

I never considered myself ugly. If I were ugly I would never have been in many of the relationships I have been in. So my teeth are not perfect...that doesn't make me ugly. And, next time he deems people ugly, I would tell him directly to his face that it has been "ugly" people, like me, who have died or nearly died defending his rights to freedom around the world. So when he thinks someone is ugly, that ugly person may be a soldier, policeman, firefighter. Additionally his ignorance and prejudgment is rather arrogant of him.....I will stop there....

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[info]aprilgirl95

December 2 2005, 20:34:51 UTC 6 years ago

So I don't mean to judge here or anything, BUT I don't think it was right for your roommate to ask a question like that. With my friends, we have NEVER called someone or inferred that someone's date, boyfriend, etc. is ugly. Now if a break up happens, then that person is fair game. LOL. Any other time, my friends/family had too much respect for each other to say something so rude. Again, that's just my humble opinion.

April

[info]forbiddenluvers

December 3 2005, 00:30:34 UTC 6 years ago

Don't worry April, my roommate's an asshole when he wants to be. His ego is bigger than the vehicle he drives :-) I figure that he's just jealous, you see he told me that he loves me on top of that he's tried to kiss me several times and I popped him the last time and so he finally got the message a dozen tylenols later :-)
SB and are planning on moving in together, based on our journals what do you think? Is that a good decision? I don't mind your opinions.

-IG-

[info]aprilgirl95

December 3 2005, 02:38:51 UTC 6 years ago

From how well things are going it seems like you both will be happy living together. Have you met each other's family yet? If not, you may want to see how that goes first. When I read about when you all met, it sounds like you live a couple of hours apart. Would that be a heck of a commute for one of you to get to work?

[info]forbiddenluvers

December 3 2005, 14:24:56 UTC 6 years ago

Hi April (from SB)

Well, I will be meeting her family this Christmas as I have elected to travel to Jamaica to meet her fmaily and spend two weeks there. I am very excited. Especially because her dad is a cop and asking for his permission to marry his duaghter has all sorts of possibilites. I chose excited over nervous because I am terribly confident about this situation.

As for my family. Well, I am ostracized from my parents home because I have broken the barrier. My father is open-minded but he is older and sick. It hurts him to have to fight my mother. My mother is closed minded and a hypocritical. I was going to address this is a post here soon.

Here is the way I look at it. I have been on my own since I was 15. I have taken care of my self on all corners of the globe. I put myself through an associates, 2 bachelors and now 2 masters degrees. I figure if she wants to be a pooty head about whom and where I love, then she can take the red off her neck and run with it.

Sometimes, we outgrow the limits of our parents. I know I sure have. IG is my dream girl. I won't let my dreams be destroyed by the racism of another, no matter who they are.

SB
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